Most men give flamsy excuses for their inability to remain faithful to their spouse not bearing in mind the vows they made during exchange of wedding rings;some blame it on their wives,with excuses such as;she can't cook,she is too dirty and can't clean the house,she is disrespectful,she is too lazy,she is not supportive e.t.c.
They forget that part of their wedding vows which says "For better for worse,till death do us part". Such men, even when their wives try as much as they can to please them they wouldn't still be satisfied.
Another category are those who would blame it on female collegues in their places of work saying they were seduced and couldn't help it.
Mike Edwards of the Big Brother Naija reality show(season 4) Pepper Dem edition is one man who deserves some accolades taking into consideration previous housemates of subsequent editions.
Mike was the first runner up who lost to Mercy.All through Mike's stay in the Big Brother's house he remained faithful to his wife and what he stood for.Mike was in the midst of s3xy ladies of different sizes and shapes for 99 days but was never found messing around with any of the female housemates.
Mike could as well be compared to one time Big Brother Naija Season 2 housemate,ThinTallTony who unlike Mike didn't inform his fellow housemates of his marital status and later got romantically entangled with one of the female housemates,Bisola.
So,being faithful to ones spouse all depends on you,on how committed you are to the success of your marriage.Before cheating on your spouse,you should put to consideration; the vows you took,your spouse's emotion,your children.
It takes more than love for one to stay faithful,it takes love, commitment, discipline all together.