Broken family ties
Broken family ties, is a broken connection between one or more family member, which leads to unhealthy family relationship, which is not strong enough to overcome whatsoever challenges it may face presently or in the long run.
Strong family tie is a strong bond, solid connection between each family member, related by blood. Which creates smooth passage to good solid communication, understanding, self respect, love, and tolerance. Now what are the causes of broken family ties? Why is there a problem maintaining a healthy family bond? Or why is there discrimination, when it comes to equality, right in the family??. Yes a party is said to have more power and authority than the other in the house.
The role of the head of house, appears to be the post with more authority, which the father rightfully should be the one we are talking about, while the mother the assistant. Okay. Mind you the father have more say , right? Find let's draw out scnerio, to brighten it up.
In the country India, survey proved that, the wife after birth has more say than the husband, when it comes to keeping and maintaining the family affairs. Why? Because there believe Is that the father has little experience when it comes to home affairs, so the wife rather do the say. Now back to Africa, 80 percent of her mother country, even culture, religion and tribes, gives the father more say than his wife, though they do it in common, when Wife submit to her husband, giving him more will power. So, the wife we say is the assistant. Even when the man doesn't 100 percent contribute to the nursing of baby, home keeping etc. The wife still make him feel his right at home. So what are we saying? The family ties of a thing dwells from country to country in her individual believe. Failure to bond well, leads to broken homes, now we have spoken a bit about individual responsibilities. Now let's face the cause of this broken ties.
Gender inequality, equilibrium (unbalance) in the society, home etc. Is a very big problem which, when not cultured untime, set the home apart. The believe that the man is meant to manage high level offices in the society, than the woman, which had made so many mind set to believe a woman can not do even better than what the man can do. Well that's a debate for another day.
We have lack of understanding, tolerance, being a follow up problem , which had run many homes because of lack of understanding and tolerance. Which had produce children with negative mindset of a family. Growing up to believe, 'understanding and tolerance ' doesn't necessarily matter when it comes to having, a healthy family. But hey! It does.
Lack of solid communication, where one feels, saying his/her own opinion will lead to quarrel or being shun, then such family, would eventually have their tie broken.
Lack of quality time, respect for each other in the family. Each
Each member of the family deserves his/her own respect in accordance. An adages says respect is reciprocal. Respect yourself and you shall be respected. When a particular member of the family feels insulted or not respected, might leads to annoyances and when it piles up it turns into retaliating in vengeance. And we all know the outcome.
Freedom. I believe this is the least serious part of a broken family ties. But never going to be left without treating it. When there is not freedom things get really wired. Either freedom of speech etc when a family member start feeling he has no need to contribute to the growth of the family growth, leads to broken ties one way or the other.
I believe family is said to be healthy, when each member of family plays their role in maintaining and building the family to a solid piller. Bonded tightly, during their rough and smooth doing and going. Failure to live to love each other and respect each other faithfully despite any short comings. The such home is weak and may break on the long run. Which affect the product of the family. Especially the children, psychologically affect the mind set of children and each member.